What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 01:43
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
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4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
What was your best revenge story?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
How does it feel to have sex with a 40 year old curvy aunty?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
Why are people of mixed race seen as more attractive than non-mixed-race people?
52~ What are your hobbies?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
What's your favourite porn video to jerk off to?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
What is the best technique for inserting a tampon into one’s anus?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
Why did my bipolar girlfriend split up with me?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
What are the defining characteristics of woke liberals and conservatives in the United States?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
*** Random Questions ***
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
Family Relation Age Play
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
Please share Did you stop?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
Would you read them together?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
Any that are a turn off?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
The Ice Breaker Questions
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
*** Questions About Me ***
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Do you think this brought you closer together?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
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45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
How old are you? Male or Female?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
29- How superstitious are you?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
If yes, what?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Any that are a turn off?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
39~ What are your love languages?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Nothing too Serious
If you win, what will you make them do?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
What is your favorite position? Why?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?